Most leaders are conflict-avoidant. Instead of running from tension, view it as a data point signaling an unaddressed issue or misalignment. This reframes conflict from a threat into an opportunity for discovery and improvement, prompting curiosity rather than fear.

Deliberately sitting in the discomfort of conflict, rather than avoiding it, leads to faster resolutions and a clearer direction. This process, while uncomfortable, forges a level of conviction so strong that it becomes unshakeable.

Many salespeople avoid any hint of negativity. However, genuine collaboration requires being comfortable with conflict, pushback, and resistance. Proactively addressing these potential issues builds deep trust and shows you are a partner, not just a vendor trying to smooth-talk their way to a deal.

Teams stuck in a relentless, task-focused "doing mode" often make poor choices without realizing it. To break this cycle, intentionally introduce dissonance through conflict, a devil's advocate, or an external voice. This "dig in the ribs" forces the team to pause, look up, and reconnect with their wider purpose.

What is often perceived as political maneuvering or a negative attitude on a team is frequently just a misunderstanding of different Working Genius profiles. For example, one person's need to talk through ideas can frustrate another's desire to just get things done. Recognizing this re-attributes conflict to wiring, not malice.

Some CEOs encourage tension between sales and marketing. A more effective model is for the CRO and CMO to build enough trust to handle all disagreements—like lead quality or follow-up—behind closed doors. This prevents a culture of finger-pointing and presents a united front to leadership.

Jacob Collier explains that beautiful music relies on controlling dissonance (tension), not just playing pleasant notes (consonance). This applies to teams: leaning into creative tension and resolving it leads to a more meaningful outcome than avoiding disagreement altogether.

Open-mindedness is not a passive virtue but a competitive advantage. "Strategic tolerance" is the deliberate act of engaging with opposing views and information you dislike. This process pressure-tests your own ideas against reality, making you and your business strategies more resilient and effective.

The common practice of hiring for "culture fit" creates homogenous teams that stifle creativity and produce the same results. To innovate, actively recruit people who challenge the status quo and think differently. A "culture mismatch" introduces the friction necessary for breakthrough ideas.