Relying on consensus to make decisions is an abdication of leadership. The process optimizes for avoiding downsides rather than achieving excellence, leading to mediocre "6 out of 10" outcomes and preventing the outlier successes that leadership can unlock.

Most leaders are conflict-avoidant. Instead of running from tension, view it as a data point signaling an unaddressed issue or misalignment. This reframes conflict from a threat into an opportunity for discovery and improvement, prompting curiosity rather than fear.

Barry Diller views confrontation not as negative conflict but as a vital process for discovery. He believes the "convulsive arguing of ideas" forces hidden truths and better insights to the surface. For him, a lack of direct, passionate debate leads to dull, suboptimal outcomes.

Deliberately sitting in the discomfort of conflict, rather than avoiding it, leads to faster resolutions and a clearer direction. This process, while uncomfortable, forges a level of conviction so strong that it becomes unshakeable.

When a founder advises a successor to 'make decisions that energize you,' it's a strategic directive, not a wellness tip. It serves as a guardrail against the 'death by a thousand cuts' that comes from compromising core beliefs just to make others comfortable, thereby preserving the vision.

If a decision has universal agreement, a leader isn't adding value because the group would have reached that conclusion anyway. True leadership is demonstrated when you make a difficult, unpopular choice that others would not, guiding the organization through necessary but painful steps.

Citing a George Bernard Shaw quote, Atlassian's CEO explains that progress is driven by "unreasonable" individuals who challenge existing systems rather than accepting them. This mindset is essential for innovation, even if it sometimes leads to trouble.

Open-mindedness is not a passive virtue but a competitive advantage. "Strategic tolerance" is the deliberate act of engaging with opposing views and information you dislike. This process pressure-tests your own ideas against reality, making you and your business strategies more resilient and effective.

Many leaders focus on having the correct analysis. However, true leadership requires understanding that being right is useless if you can't persuade and influence others. The most successful leaders shift their focus from proving their correctness to finding the most effective way to communicate and achieve their goals.