Writing down specific images from your day is more than memory-keeping; it’s attention training. This practice trains your eye to seek out small, nourishing moments you'd otherwise miss, like a dog napping in the sun. It actively rewires your focus toward what matters and what you want more of.

For those who struggle with stillness, active forms of rest like gardening or baking can be a powerful entry point. The key is that the activity must be intentionally unproductive, with no achievement goal. This active rest helps calm the nervous system, making it easier to transition to deeper, more still forms of rest like meditation later on.

A practical technique to halt negative self-talk is to personify your inner critic with a ridiculous name (e.g., "ass clown"). When negative thoughts arise, you directly address and dismiss this character out loud or in your head. This act of externalizing the voice serves as a powerful trigger to break the negative thought cycle.

The brain's emotional center is five times stronger than its rational part. When triggered by stress, it shuts down executive function. A deliberate 90-second pause is a powerful antidote that allows the physiological wave of emotion to pass, enabling clearer, more considered decision-making.

Instead of asking, "Have I worked enough to deserve rest?", ask, "Have I rested enough to do my best work?" This shift reframes rest from a reward you must earn into a necessary input for quality, compassion, and higher-level thinking. When in a fight-or-flight state, you lack access to the brain regions required for your most meaningful work.

Marcus Aurelius's "view from above" is a concrete technique, similar to cognitive behavioral therapy, for managing anxiety. It involves visualizing yourself zooming out from your immediate situation to a cosmic scale. This mental drill provides perspective, shrinking overwhelming problems to a more manageable size.

Contrary to popular belief, accepting reality doesn't lead to inaction. Questioning fearful and limiting thoughts removes the mental clutter that causes procrastination, freeing you to act more decisively and effectively.

Anxiety spikes when you mentally separate from your own capacity to handle future challenges. Instead of focusing on uncontrollable 'what ifs,' the antidote is to reconnect with your agency and ability to respond, regardless of the outcome. Doubling down on your capacity to handle things quiets the alarm.

The thoughts that cause suffering—like "they don't like me" or "things should be different"—are not original or personal. They are common, recycled narratives shared by all humans. Recognizing this universality helps to depersonalize and detach from them.