Instead of treating fear as a psychological flaw, view it as a neutral, physical vibration in the body. This atomic perspective, inspired by physics, allows you to step out of self-judgment and use the energy creatively. You stop managing the 'idea' of anxiety and start experiencing the raw sensation.
Audiences unconsciously scan for truthfulness. A performance where every emotional beat is pre-planned feels false and disengaging. To truly connect, prepare your content, but in the moment, step into the unknown and allow your authentic, present sensations to guide your delivery.
Labeling emotions like fear as 'bad' leads to suppression. This act disconnects you from your body and forces your attention into your mind, which creates debilitating self-talk. True confidence is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to feel everything without judgment or suppression.
The mind is a masterful manipulator that often won't lead with criticism. Instead, it pulls you in with praise, telling you how great you are. Once it has your trust and attention, it pivots to systematically listing your flaws, making the negative self-talk feel more credible and devastating.
When your mind starts its negative chatter, don't get lost debating the content. Instead, use the chatter itself as a physiological alarm bell. It's a signal that you've likely stopped breathing deeply and disconnected from your body. Use it as a reminder to reconnect physically, not engage mentally.
An intense emotion like fear will run its course and pass in just 7 to 12 seconds if you let yourself feel it completely without suppression. Chronic suffering arises from resisting the feeling, not from the feeling itself. To accelerate this process, breathe into the physical sensation rather than holding your breath against it.
When you suppress an emotion, you physically jam an energetic pattern into your body. Over time, this creates tight, compressed areas—'lock boxes'—that can lead to chronic pain, postural issues, and shallow breathing. This physical blockage also disconnects you from your body, trapping you in your mind.
Labels like 'imposter syndrome' or 'feeling like a failure' are purely mental stories, not physical realities. Your body doesn't know what 'failure' is; it only experiences sensations like a churning stomach or tightness in the chest. By focusing on the raw physical feeling, you disconnect from the mind's debilitating narrative.