To combat the feeling of time accelerating with age, actively practice feeling. By consciously allowing yourself to weep at something moving or laugh out loud at something funny, you register moments more deeply. This slows down your perception of life and prevents you from merely ripping through it.

Pair a new desired mindset with an existing daily habit, like listening to an 'abundance' audio track while walking your dog. This uses classical conditioning (like Pavlov's dog) to train your brain to associate the everyday activity with the positive emotional state, making it automatic over time.

While time tracking is for management, its surprising long-term benefit is creating a detailed journal. By capturing context around events, it creates richer memories. This act of savoring makes time feel more expansive, combatting the feeling of "where did the time go?"

Contrary to being restrictive, journaling prompts can be liberating. They challenge you to explore topics and perspectives you wouldn't naturally gravitate towards, twisting your mind “out of its usual ruts.” Even writing about your resistance to a prompt can yield surprising insights.

Journaling is not just for self-reflection. The act of privately untangling fears and emotions on the page externalizes them, making it easier to name them and then discuss them openly with others. This private practice is a powerful tool for improving interpersonal communication.

Humans have two attention types: fatigable 'directed attention' for focus and effortless 'involuntary attention.' Nature's 'softly fascinating' stimuli (like waves) engage involuntary attention, allowing our directed attention to recover. This is unlike chaotic urban environments that overwhelm all attentional resources.

Counteract the human tendency to focus on negativity by consciously treating positive events as abundant and interconnected ("plural") while framing negative events as isolated incidents ("singular"). This mental model helps block negative prophecies from taking hold.

Since the brain builds future predictions from past experiences, you can architect your future self by intentionally creating new experiences today. By exposing yourself to new ideas and practicing new skills, you create the seeds for future automatic predictions and behaviors, giving you agency over who you become.

True rest requires a mental break, not just a physical one. Use a technique called "noting" to detach from stress-inducing thought loops. When you catch your mind spiraling—even while physically resting—simply label the activity: "worrying," "planning," or "comparing." This act of observation creates distance, helping you step away from the story and return to the present moment.