Your true reputation is not what you project, but the sum of stories people tell about you when you're not in the room or after you've left an organization. This "legacy" narrative is the ultimate litmus test of your integrity and impact.

Over-identifying with your role and company leads to a significant identity crisis when you leave. This mistake causes burnout and delays the discovery of your unique value outside of a corporate structure. True security comes from your own transferable skills, not your employer's brand.

Actively pursuing a promotion often leads to frustration because it depends on factors outside your control. The path to growth and happiness is to focus entirely on maximizing your impact in your current role. Promotions and recognition will eventually follow as lagging indicators.

When eulogized, a person's career accomplishments are footnotes. The core of their legacy is their character—how they behaved and treated others—and their service. This reality should inform how we prioritize our daily actions, focusing on behavior over status or material success.

The initial goal of building a company that endures can be misplaced. A more meaningful and lasting legacy is created through the people you train and empower. The corporate entity may fade, but the skills and values instilled in your team will ripple outwards for decades through their own ventures and leadership.

A linear career path is not required for success. Businesses ultimately value high performers who demonstrate an ownership mentality and consistently drive impact. Focusing on helping the business win creates opportunities to move across roles and industries, making your journey more valuable.

Your personal brand should transcend your current job title. Identify recurring themes in your career and articulate them as core "I am" statements (e.g., "I love to build things from the ground up"). These statements should be true for you across different companies and roles, forming an authentic and enduring brand.

True long-term impact comes from mentoring and developing people, not just hitting business targets. Helping others succeed in their careers creates a ripple effect that benefits individuals and companies, providing a deeper sense of fulfillment than any single project or promotion.

When transitioning into a new role, especially a cross-functional one like product, relying on a title is a weak foundation for credibility. Earning respect through informal authority—by demonstrating value and influence—builds a much stronger and more lasting leadership position.