High-level titles are context-dependent and fade once you leave a company. This realization should shift your focus from chasing promotions to building products that create a lasting personal legacy, as that is an impact you truly own.
Actively pursuing a promotion often leads to frustration because it depends on factors outside your control. The path to growth and happiness is to focus entirely on maximizing your impact in your current role. Promotions and recognition will eventually follow as lagging indicators.
Counterintuitively, being brutally honest with candidates about the low odds of success is a powerful recruiting filter. It selects for mission-driven individuals who are mentally prepared for the inevitable tough cycles of a startup, ensuring they won't quit when things get difficult.
When hired externally into a role existing employees wanted, your first job is to build trust. Frame your presence as a net positive for their careers by understanding their goals and actively helping them grow. Show them you are an enabler for their success.
Instead of just climbing the corporate ladder, define an ultimate career objective (a 'North Star'). Then, strategically choose roles—even uncomfortable or lateral ones—that deliberately fill the specific knowledge gaps standing between you and your long-term goal.
The transition from manager to director requires a shift from managing tactical details to 'directing.' A director's value comes from high-level strategy, cross-departmental resource connection, and solving organizational problems, not from knowing more than their direct reports.
A critical cultural lesson from Facebook is that all engineering leaders must remain hands-on. Seeing a VP fix bugs in bootcamp demonstrates that staying technical is essential for making credible, detail-driven strategic decisions and avoiding ivory-tower management.