To combat the feeling of time accelerating with age, actively practice feeling. By consciously allowing yourself to weep at something moving or laugh out loud at something funny, you register moments more deeply. This slows down your perception of life and prevents you from merely ripping through it.

A profound benefit of the 'backward step' technique is its ability to create a sense of timelessness. By momentarily disengaging from the linear progression of tasks and schedules, you can step outside the 'stream of clock time,' providing relief from temporal pressure and fostering a deeper connection with the present.

Writing down specific images from your day is more than memory-keeping; it’s attention training. This practice trains your eye to seek out small, nourishing moments you'd otherwise miss, like a dog napping in the sun. It actively rewires your focus toward what matters and what you want more of.

While time tracking is for management, its surprising long-term benefit is creating a detailed journal. By capturing context around events, it creates richer memories. This act of savoring makes time feel more expansive, combatting the feeling of "where did the time go?"

To avoid living on autopilot, Bill Perkins suggests mapping life in 5-10 year blocks and assigning key experiences to each. This exercise forces confrontation with the finite nature of each life stage, prompting proactive planning for memorable events before the opportunity window closes.

The emotional flatness and lack of motivation common in menopause stems from a drop in dopamine. Instead of forcing yourself through old routines, you can strategically counteract this by introducing novelty. Learning a new sport or changing daily habits helps naturally boost dopamine and reignite drive.

The human brain defaults to an energy-saving 'autopilot' mode for predictable routines, like a daily commute. This causes you to be mentally absent and miss large portions of your life. Introducing novelty and unpredictable experiences is crucial because it forces your brain to disengage autopilot and become present and focused.

To prevent months from blurring together, intentionally schedule one thing you wouldn't normally do every other month. This practice, called "Kevin's Rule," systematically creates six memorable experiences per year, enriching your life without requiring a massive commitment.

The subjective passage of time is linked to the density of new memories created. Routine weekends feel short because few new memories are formed. By seeking novelty—taking a new route home or rearranging your office—you force the brain to record more, stretching your subjective sense of time.