The subjective passage of time is linked to the density of new memories created. Routine weekends feel short because few new memories are formed. By seeking novelty—taking a new route home or rearranging your office—you force the brain to record more, stretching your subjective sense of time.
To combat the feeling of time accelerating with age, actively practice feeling. By consciously allowing yourself to weep at something moving or laugh out loud at something funny, you register moments more deeply. This slows down your perception of life and prevents you from merely ripping through it.
Writing down specific images from your day is more than memory-keeping; it’s attention training. This practice trains your eye to seek out small, nourishing moments you'd otherwise miss, like a dog napping in the sun. It actively rewires your focus toward what matters and what you want more of.
To rediscover the curiosity needed for work, practice it in low-stakes daily life. Take a different route to work, order a coffee you'd never choose, or read a different genre of book. Consciously observing how these novel experiences feel primes your brain to question assumptions and see new possibilities in your professional environment.
While time tracking is for management, its surprising long-term benefit is creating a detailed journal. By capturing context around events, it creates richer memories. This act of savoring makes time feel more expansive, combatting the feeling of "where did the time go?"
The emotional flatness and lack of motivation common in menopause stems from a drop in dopamine. Instead of forcing yourself through old routines, you can strategically counteract this by introducing novelty. Learning a new sport or changing daily habits helps naturally boost dopamine and reignite drive.
The mind wanders 50% of the time not by accident, but as an evolutionary feature. This "spontaneous thought" acts like a replay function, repeatedly firing neural patterns from recent experiences to strengthen their connections and embed them as long-term memories.
To counteract the brain's tendency to habituate, intentionally break up positive experiences. Taking shorter, more frequent vacations or inserting breaks while listening to a favorite song resets your joy response, making each segment feel more novel and pleasurable than continuous consumption.
The human brain defaults to an energy-saving 'autopilot' mode for predictable routines, like a daily commute. This causes you to be mentally absent and miss large portions of your life. Introducing novelty and unpredictable experiences is crucial because it forces your brain to disengage autopilot and become present and focused.
To prevent months from blurring together, intentionally schedule one thing you wouldn't normally do every other month. This practice, called "Kevin's Rule," systematically creates six memorable experiences per year, enriching your life without requiring a massive commitment.
While repetition is crucial for skill mastery, the brain eventually stops recording familiar experiences to conserve energy. This neurological efficiency causes our perception of time to speed up as we age. To counteract this, one must intentionally introduce new challenges to keep the brain actively creating new memories.