To combat the feeling of time accelerating with age, actively practice feeling. By consciously allowing yourself to weep at something moving or laugh out loud at something funny, you register moments more deeply. This slows down your perception of life and prevents you from merely ripping through it.

For those who struggle with stillness, active forms of rest like gardening or baking can be a powerful entry point. The key is that the activity must be intentionally unproductive, with no achievement goal. This active rest helps calm the nervous system, making it easier to transition to deeper, more still forms of rest like meditation later on.

Contrary to the belief that meditation requires actively deploying a method, Zen Master Henry Shukman reframes it as a path of 'doing less.' It's a process of letting go of the need to perform and allowing an intrinsic, peaceful well-being to emerge on its own, rather than trying to create it through effort.

True rest requires a mental break, not just a physical one. Use a technique called "noting" to detach from stress-inducing thought loops. When you catch your mind spiraling—even while physically resting—simply label the activity: "worrying," "planning," or "comparing." This act of observation creates distance, helping you step away from the story and return to the present moment.

The meditation reveals a 'hidden secret of rest': it is not merely about stopping activity. True physical and mental rest actively allows a different, more creative quality of awareness to emerge naturally, offering new perspectives and insights without conscious effort.

In a culture of constant activity, a true reset comes from granting yourself permission to do nothing. Zen Master Henry Shukman explains this allows your system to 'power down,' accessing an inner peace that restores and recharges more effectively than passive rest or entertainment.

Contrary to the impulse to eliminate stress, the Zen approach is to learn to permit its presence. By creating space for uncomfortable sensations and including them in your awareness without resistance, you paradoxically reduce their power and de-stress yourself.

Instead of constantly pushing forward, Zen practice suggests taking a momentary 'backward step.' This intentional disengagement from daily activities illuminates an underlying, ever-present state of calm awareness, offering a profound mental reset without needing to achieve a special state.

Jhanas, altered states learned through meditation, establish a powerful feedback loop between attention and emotion. This acts as a forcing function, helping you develop unprecedented fluency in managing your own nervous system, much like optimizing sleep or diet.