Shift your mindset from feeling responsible for your employees' actions and feelings to being responsible *to* them. Fulfill your obligations of providing training, resources, and clear expectations, but empower them to own their own performance and problems.

To empower your team, enforce the '1-3-1 rule' for problem-solving. Before anyone can escalate an issue to you, they must define the one problem, research three potential solutions, and present their single best recommendation. This forces critical thinking and shifts the team from problem-spotters to problem-solvers.

Instead of solving problems brought by their team, effective leaders empower them by shifting ownership. After listening to an issue, the immediate next step is to ask the team to propose a viable solution. This builds their problem-solving and decision-making capabilities.

To help your team overcome their own performance blockers, shift your coaching from their actions to their thinking. Ask questions like, "What were you thinking that led you to that approach?" This helps them uncover the root belief driving their behavior, enabling more profound and lasting change than simple behavioral correction.

Institute a clear policy: team members cannot escalate an issue without first having thought through and proposed a potential solution. This practice shifts the culture from problem identification to problem ownership, fostering self-sufficiency and reducing leader burnout.

New leaders must transition from being the expert to being a coach. This involves letting your team struggle and even fail. Ask open-ended questions like, "When have you faced something similar before?" to build their problem-solving skills instead of simply giving them the solution.

Many leaders, particularly in technical fields, mistakenly believe their role is to provide all the answers. This approach disempowers teams and creates a bottleneck. Shifting from advising to coaching unlocks a team's problem-solving potential and allows leaders to scale their impact.

To gain buy-in, guide people to your desired outcome through a curated series of questions. This allows them to feel like they are discovering the solution themselves, creating a powerful sense of ownership. They are more likely to commit to a conclusion they feel they helped create.

Employees are often either "inner-directed" (naturally ask why) or "outer-directed" (seek to please). Leaders can develop outer-directed staff by creating an environment where asking questions and showing one's thinking is explicitly rewarded over simply following orders, thereby overcoming their conditioned fear of making mistakes.