New managers often mistakenly create a single "leader persona" for their entire team. According to Leader-Member Exchange theory, effective leadership requires cultivating distinct, individual relationships with each team member. A manager's persona is a composite of multiple one-to-one connections, not a single broadcasted style.
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Avoid committing to a single leadership style. Instead, view different approaches (e.g., empathetic vs. autocratic) as tools in a toolkit. A skilled leader knows which tool is appropriate for a given situation, even if it's not their default preference.
A one-size-fits-all management style is ineffective. Leaders must practice 'situational leadership' by tailoring their approach to each team member's specific experience level and career goals. This means treating a senior employee differently from a junior one and focusing on the unique support each individual needs to grow and succeed.
New managers often fear that promoting their team's accomplishments will make them seem unnecessary. In reality, a key indicator of a successful manager is when senior leaders know the individual names of their team members, demonstrating the manager's ability to build talent and get results.
Effective leadership isn't about one fixed style. It’s about accurately reading a situation and adapting your approach—whether to be directive, empathetic, or demanding. Great leaders know that leading senior executives requires a different approach than managing new graduates.
The "treat others as you want to be treated" mantra fails in leadership because individuals have different motivations and work styles. Effective leaders adapt their approach, recognizing that their preferred hands-off style might not work for someone who needs more direct guidance.
A common pitfall for new managers is seeking validation by being liked. A great leader's role is to provide constructive challenges and uncomfortable feedback, which fosters genuine growth and ultimately earns the team's gratitude and respect.
A key lesson from Allspring CEO Kate Burke's experience is that leaders must be chameleons. Instead of expecting employees to mirror their style, leaders should adapt their management approach to unlock the unique potential of each individual, fostering a more diverse and effective team.
Many leaders mistakenly manage their team as a single entity, delivering one-size-fits-all messages in team meetings. This fails because each person is unique. True connection and performance improvement begin by understanding and connecting with each salesperson on a one-on-one basis first.
There are no universal leadership traits; successful leaders can be introverts, extroverts, planners, or chaotic. What they share is the ability to make others feel that following them will lead to a better tomorrow. This emotional response is what creates followers, not a specific checklist of skills.
The tension between being powerful and being likable is a false binary. Instead of choosing one, combine seemingly contradictory traits to define an authentic leadership style, such as "competitively calm" or "ambitiously communal." This creates a more effective and genuine communication persona.
