The ability to experience awe—the feeling of being in the presence of something vast, like a waterfall or starry sky—builds resilience against heartbreak. It provides perspective by making your personal problems feel smaller, temporarily quieting the ego, and fostering a connection to the wider world.

A study found that students who spent just one to two minutes looking up at tall eucalyptus trees were subsequently more likely to help a stranger pick up dropped pens. This shows that even fleeting moments of awe can trigger immediate prosocial behavior.

A psychologist combated his own severe anxiety by engaging in activities like team basketball and loud rock concerts. These experiences allowed him to "get outside of himself" and lose his narrow preoccupations, demonstrating that awe-inducing activities can be a powerful therapeutic escape from anxiety's self-focus.

Astrophysicist Sara Seager finds comfort, not despair, in humanity's smallness. She uses the vastness of the universe as a mental tool for self-distancing. Confronting our own tragedies against a cosmic scale makes personal problems feel smaller and more manageable.

Dr. Bolte-Taylor suggests reflecting on the astronomical odds you beat to be born. From being one of 400,000 egg cells to multiplying at 250,000 cells per second in gestation, this perspective can generate profound awe and gratitude, counteracting feelings of meaninglessness.

Marcus Aurelius's "view from above" is a concrete technique, similar to cognitive behavioral therapy, for managing anxiety. It involves visualizing yourself zooming out from your immediate situation to a cosmic scale. This mental drill provides perspective, shrinking overwhelming problems to a more manageable size.

Awe is not just appreciating beauty; it's a cognitive process defined by encountering vast mysteries that require a "need for accommodation." This means you must rearrange your existing knowledge structures and mental models to make sense of the new, incomprehensible experience.

A study on older adults found that taking a weekly "awe walk" became more effective with repetition, countering the typical hedonic treadmill effect. Participants felt increasing awe over eight weeks and their sense of self became smaller, as seen in the photos they took.

Paradoxically, achieving a deep sense of personal significance requires experiences of awe that make you feel small, like studying astronomy or being in nature. This shifts your perspective from the self-obsessed 'me-self' to the transcendent 'I-self,' which is the source of true meaning and peace.