A psychologist combated his own severe anxiety by engaging in activities like team basketball and loud rock concerts. These experiences allowed him to "get outside of himself" and lose his narrow preoccupations, demonstrating that awe-inducing activities can be a powerful therapeutic escape from anxiety's self-focus.
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Surrendering your will to a purpose beyond yourself, similar to 12-step programs, is a powerful tool for overcoming performance anxiety. This act of letting go is especially difficult for talented, self-reliant individuals but is key to trading personal stress for universal strength.
A mental performance coach taught diver Molly Carlson to visualize fear as a piece of paper in front of her eyes. Instead of trying to destroy the paper, she gently shifts it to the side, allowing it to exist without consuming her focus, freeing her to perform.
Molly Carlson, who has Generalized Anxiety Disorder, finds that the three seconds she's in the air during a high dive are the most silent her brain ever is. The extreme physical risk and focus required create a temporary state of pure presence, making the dangerous act a powerful mental escape.
Counterintuitively, the brain's most relaxed state is not during passive rest but during intense focus on a single activity. Engaging in challenging hobbies that require full concentration is a more effective way to decompress and manage stress than traditional relaxation.
Instead of treating fear as a psychological flaw, view it as a neutral, physical vibration in the body. This atomic perspective, inspired by physics, allows you to step out of self-judgment and use the energy creatively. You stop managing the 'idea' of anxiety and start experiencing the raw sensation.
Marcus Aurelius's "view from above" is a concrete technique, similar to cognitive behavioral therapy, for managing anxiety. It involves visualizing yourself zooming out from your immediate situation to a cosmic scale. This mental drill provides perspective, shrinking overwhelming problems to a more manageable size.
A study on older adults found that taking a weekly "awe walk" became more effective with repetition, countering the typical hedonic treadmill effect. Participants felt increasing awe over eight weeks and their sense of self became smaller, as seen in the photos they took.
Anxiety isn't just fear; it's the feeling of separating from your own capacity to handle what's to come. The solution is not to eliminate uncertainty but to stop the 'what if' spiral and reconnect with the core truth: through your attitude and actions, you can handle whatever happens, even if it's terrible.
Anxiety spikes when you mentally separate from your own capacity to handle future challenges. Instead of focusing on uncontrollable 'what ifs,' the antidote is to reconnect with your agency and ability to respond, regardless of the outcome. Doubling down on your capacity to handle things quiets the alarm.
Experiencing awe quiets our ego-focused identity. In experiments, people standing near a T-Rex skeleton later defined themselves with broad, collective terms like "a human" or "a mammal," rather than individualistic traits like "ambitious," demonstrating a shift away from the self.