When a rep achieves a major success and thanks their coach, the most powerful response is to redirect the credit back to the rep. By stating, "You went and did the work," the coach reinforces the rep's ownership and self-efficacy, making the success about their actions, not the coach's magic.
To cultivate a culture of high agency, frame ultimate responsibility as a privilege, not a burden. By telling new hires 'everything's your fault now,' you immediately set the expectation that they have control and are empowered to solve problems. This approach attracts and retains individuals who see ownership as an opportunity to make an impact.
A sales manager's coaching style directly impacts their team's mindset. Constantly asking 'When will this close?' amplifies a seller's anxiety and negativity bias. In contrast, asking 'How are you helping this person?' reinforces a healthier, customer-centric process that leads to better long-term results.
Most managers are conditioned to spot errors. A more powerful strategy, inspired by Ken Blanchard, is to actively "catch people doing the right thing" and praise it. This builds an emotional bank account, reinforces desired behaviors, and improves culture far more effectively than constant correction.
Great leaders motivate their teams by consistently showing up as the same person every day, regardless of wins or losses. This predictable behavior builds trust and focuses the team on sustainable, incremental improvements—the "tiny drops of water" that build an ocean—rather than relying on inconsistent, high-emotion tactics.
A "team brag session"—where each member publicly praises a colleague—is counterintuitively more beneficial for the giver. While the recipient feels respected, the act of recognizing others elevates the praiser's own morale and strengthens team bonds.
A resilient sales culture is built on pride. This pride doesn't appear organically; it's the result of a specific sequence. Effective training and development equip reps to win. Consistent winning fosters genuine pride in their work, team, and company, which in turn builds a loyal, high-retention culture.
Transitioning from a top-performing rep requires a mindset shift from doing to enabling. A new leader's role is not to teach their specific 'Michael Jordan' method, but to align company and personal goals, then focus on removing obstacles for each team member's unique path to success.
Salespeople often focus on being 'coachable' (receptive to feedback). A more powerful trait is humility—the proactive asking for help and recognition that success is a team effort. Humility unlocks collaboration and support, getting you further, faster than simply being open to advice.
Use the GROW model (Goal, Reality, Options, Way Forward) to structure coaching conversations. This simple set of question categories helps leaders guide their team members to find their own solutions, fostering independence and critical thinking without the leader needing to provide the answer directly.
Instead of dwelling on what went wrong, anchor coaching in the future ('feed forward') by planning for the next opportunity. Reinforcing positive actions with 'highlight reels,' like coach Tom Landry did, is far more effective at encouraging repeat performance than only analyzing fumbles.