A board member's role is to provide outside perspective to help a CEO think through a problem, not to make the decision. CEOs who ask 'what should we do?' risk abdicating responsibility to someone who lacks the deep operational context to make the right call. This can be destructive to a CEO's development.

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Reed Hastings argues board members lack daily context to add value with advice. Their true function is to be an "insurance layer," with their most crucial responsibility being the decision to replace the CEO if needed. They must learn the business not to advise, but to be prepared for that moment.

Instead of solving problems brought by their team, effective leaders empower them by shifting ownership. After listening to an issue, the immediate next step is to ask the team to propose a viable solution. This builds their problem-solving and decision-making capabilities.

When an employee presents a problem they should be able to solve, resist providing a solution. Instead, return ownership by asking, "What do you think you should do about that?" This simple question forces critical thinking and breaks the team's dependency on you for answers.

CEOs often complain about team failures or external factors. However, they are the ones who hire, set the culture of accountability, and build resilient systems. Accepting that you are the root cause of all problems is empowering because it means you also hold the power for all solutions.

When leading functions outside your core expertise (e.g., product leading tech and data), credibility cannot come from having answers. Instead, it's built by consistently asking open-ended questions to deeply understand the team's challenges. This approach prevents solutionizing and fosters trust.

CEOs are often exceptional at building relationships, which can co-opt a board of directors. Directors become friends, lose objectivity, and avoid tough conversations about performance or succession, ultimately failing in their governance duties because they "just want them to win."

Former BetterRx CEO Ben Clark sets the expectation that his leaders should be ahead of him 90% of the time, bringing him well-formed plans to critique rather than asking for direction. This empowers domain experts to truly own their space and frees the CEO to focus on high-level strategy and support.

To create a future-ready organization, leaders must start with humility and publicly state, "I don't know." This dismantles the "Hippo" (Highest Paid Person's Opinion) culture, where everyone waits for the boss's judgment. It empowers everyone to contribute ideas by signaling that past success doesn't guarantee future survival.

Proactively asking a potential investor how they navigate disagreements reveals their philosophy on board governance and CEO autonomy. Investor Alex Nihanky of Scale notes the CEO is the "runner" and the tie should go to them, but not all investors share this view. This question helps founders vet investor fit before a conflict arises.

Drawing lessons from former CEO Hank Paulson, David Solomon emphasizes that a leader's most crucial function is to maintain a clear direction—a 'compass pointing north'—and make the right call, even when it is unpopular or goes against the strong consensus of the room.