Modern education is complicit in widespread professional dissatisfaction by narrowly funneling students toward career tracks based on passion. This approach fails to equip individuals with the tools to discover their broader "life's work," a concept distinct from and more profound than a job.

Purpose isn't exclusive to high-status professions. Any job can become a source of deep purpose by connecting its daily tasks to a larger, positive impact. A NASA custodian can be "putting a man on the moon," and a parking attendant checking tire treads can be ensuring driver safety. Purpose is a mindset.

Many founders treat their startup as a temporary vehicle to an exit, which can lead to an identity crisis after they "win." A healthier approach is to build a company as a "way of life"—a system of activities you want to engage in for the long term, regardless of specific outcomes.

Instead of asking the passive question, 'What is the meaning of life?', a more potent tool for self-discovery is to ask, 'What would I be willing to die for?' This reframes meaning as an active declaration of ultimate value, forcing a confrontation with one's deepest convictions and purpose.

To find your true calling, divide your life into five-year increments. For each block, list what you loved doing and what others said you excelled at. The seven or so themes that repeatedly emerge point directly to your core purpose and passion, which often get lost in the pursuit of money.

Your core values aren't just abstract principles you admire; they are revealed by the concrete things you willingly give up time, ego, or comfort for. Observing your sacrifices provides a clearer, more honest assessment of what truly drives you.

When your entire sense of self is tied to your profession, you build a prison. Any threat to your work becomes a threat to your existence. A resilient identity is like a diversified portfolio, with investments in family, hobbies, and community, not just a single stock.

Goals (e.g., "be a doctor," "be happy") are outcome-focused and can lead to frustration if not achieved. Intentions (e.g., "act with kindness") are process-focused and within your control in any moment. Centering your life on intentions creates a stable internal anchor, regardless of your job title or external circumstances.

Don't try to invent aspirational values. Your true values are already embedded from childhood, often as a reaction for or against your experiences. The process is one of self-excavation—analyzing consistent behaviors during life's highs and lows—not wishful thinking.