Continuing to give money to adult children sends a damaging subliminal message: 'I don't believe you can make it on your own.' This perceived lack of faith from parents can be more destructive to a young adult's confidence than the financial struggle itself.

Young employees' perceived lack of resilience isn't a generational flaw but a result of parenting that shielded them from hardship. The decline of teenagers working difficult, blue-collar summer jobs has created adults who are less prepared for the realities of the workplace.

Parents who track and financially support their adult children believe they are helping. In reality, this behavior communicates a lack of faith in their children's abilities, destroying their self-worth and trapping them in a cycle of dependency.

If an adult child lacks ambition, the root cause is often continued financial support from parents. Providing money and shelter removes the natural consequences of inaction, creating a comfortable environment for laziness. The most effective (though difficult) solution is to cut them off financially.

Wealthy parents who endlessly provide for their adult children may inadvertently signal a lack of faith in their abilities. This can lead to depression and a sense of incapability, as the financial support is perceived as a message that they are seen as losers.

Establishing 25 as the age of full accountability provides a structured "grace period" for young adults. It allows them to transition from academia to the real world and shed the habit of blaming circumstances, leading to healthier development and less pressure.

While well-intentioned, providing prolonged financial support to adult children communicates a belief that they are incapable of succeeding on their own. This cripples their self-esteem and ambition, making the enabling parent the root of the problem.

Continuously paying for an adult child's lifestyle, while well-intentioned, can be perceived by the child as a message that their parents believe they are incapable of succeeding on their own, leading to resentment and depression.

Society is experiencing a 'generational whiplash' in parenting. A reaction against strict methods led to a culture of 'eighth-place trophies,' producing adults ill-equipped for real-world consequences. A counter-movement is now emerging where parents are reintroducing competition and accountability to better prepare their children for life's challenges.