A prenuptial agreement isn't about planning for divorce; it's about customizing the legal and financial terms of your marriage contract. If you don't create your own, you are implicitly accepting the default contract written by your state's laws, which may not align with your intentions.

This reframes a prenup not as a sign of distrust, but as a proactive choice. You can either accept the default legal contract the government imposes on your marriage (and can change at will) or create your own terms with your partner.

A growing trend in prenups involves clauses designed to protect second-generation wealth. Parents who plan to leave significant assets or provide ongoing financial support are now insisting their children get prenups to ensure family money doesn't become divisible marital property in a divorce.

Laura Wasser warns against clauses that nullify a prenup after a set number of years. Courts can view these as "promotive of divorce," creating a financial incentive for one spouse to end the marriage just before the clause activates, which could potentially invalidate the entire agreement.

Every marriage has a prenup; it's either one you write together or one written by the state legislature. Forgoing a prenup means you implicitly trust future politicians to decide your fate more than you trust your chosen partner to have an honest conversation.

Most couples view therapy as a last resort. A more effective approach is to engage in it proactively at the beginning of a relationship to establish tools for clear communication and ensure value alignment, preparing the couple to handle future challenges constructively.

While a prenup is negotiated in good faith before marriage, a postnup often arises from a marital issue like infidelity. This timing can lead courts to view it as the first step in a divorce negotiation, not a marriage plan, making it more susceptible to being challenged and overturned.

Divorce can be financially devastating, potentially erasing decades of wealth through legal fees and asset division. Therefore, choosing a life partner is not just an emotional decision but a crucial financial one. Ensuring financial compatibility and considering a prenuptial agreement are vital risk management strategies.

A prenup is not about distrusting a partner; it's about distrusting the government's one-size-fits-all divorce laws. It empowers a couple to create their own rules for a potential separation while they are still in love, ensuring a fairer outcome.