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If a skill comes easily, we assume it's not special and therefore not valuable. This leads people to pursue things that are difficult for them, often neglecting and under-developing their greatest natural strengths.
Don't confuse your flaws with your weaknesses. Weaknesses must be addressed. Flaws, like obsession or intense focus (as seen in Michael Jordan), are often perceived negatively by others but are the very traits that make you unique and drive winning. They are gifts to be embraced.
Lacking a conventional skill (like instrumental dexterity) can be an advantage, as it forces you to explore unorthodox paths (like electronic music production). This leads to developing unique, valuable abilities that differentiate you from peers who rely on more traditional talents.
Talents that feel easy or obvious to you—things you assume everyone can do—are often your unique gifts. Leaning into these dismissed skills (e.g., effortlessly making people laugh) can reveal your true calling.
Truly talented people are uneven. Their greatest contributions come from 'superpowers,' which feel effortless and almost thoughtless. They often misattribute their strength to skills that require effort. The key is to identify the effortless talent and avoid their 'kryptonite' weaknesses, not try to fix them.
Don't just work hard; work hard on your natural aptitudes. Life involves an "explore/exploit" tradeoff. First, experiment to discover what comes easier to you than to others. Then, exploit that advantage by applying intense effort, making you extremely difficult to compete with.
Early career advice focuses on fixing weaknesses. However, experienced leaders should shift their focus. While weaknesses must be mitigated so they don't become a liability, true effectiveness comes from understanding, amplifying, and deploying your core strengths, which is what ultimately makes you a great leader.
The most impactful career advice is to focus on becoming world-class in your innate strengths rather than trying to become mediocre in areas of weakness. It's more effective to elevate a core skill to an 'A' grade than to struggle to raise a weakness from a 'D' to a 'B'.
Don't focus on becoming a well-rounded leader. Instead, identify your weaknesses and hire people specifically to "round you out." Before trying to fix a flaw, ask if that supposed weakness is the very source of your greatest strengths.
We often mistake skills for strengths. A more powerful definition of a strength is any activity that energizes and motivates you. To boost morale and performance, individuals and leaders should focus on aligning work with these energy-giving tasks, rather than just focusing on competency.
Your unique advantage is hidden in activities you find intrinsically fun but others see as a grind. Pay attention to what you do in your "5 to 9" that seems irrational or obsessive. This "play" is often a signal of a natural talent that can be leveraged professionally.