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Camp connects rising youth fragility to hyper-protective parenting that eliminates unsupervised independence. When parents monitor older adolescents via tracking apps and solve institutional hurdles—such as communicating with college professors on their behalf—they infantilize their children. Without opportunities to resolve logistical and social problems alone during adolescence, young adults enter adulthood convinced they are incapable of basic self-reliance.
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