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Much of teenage rebellion is a reaction to being infantilized and trapped in 'fake' school games. When teens are given real responsibilities and trusted like adults—such as starting a company—the conflict often dissipates.

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Current parenting trends over-correct by giving 'eighth-place trophies' and discouraging all forms of conflict or aggression in boys. This suffocates their natural instincts and prevents them from learning to handle real-world consequences. This leads to them lashing out verbally online because they never learned that words and actions have tangible repercussions.

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