Decisions aren't equal. Most are reversible "two-way doors." A few, like selling a company, are permanent "one-way doors." Leaders must recognize the difference and apply a more rigorous, contemplative process to irreversible choices, as they have lasting consequences.
Leverage a principle from Peter Drucker: identify categorical decisions that eliminate entire classes of future choices. Instead of managing countless small decisions, make one sweeping rule (e.g., no new books, no public speaking for a year). This single choice removes thousands of subsequent decisions, creating massive mental space and clarity.
Figma CEO Dylan Field applies a design process to leadership. For critical decisions, he intentionally explores multiple paths and their connections (divergence) before committing to one (convergence). He notes the key leadership skill is learning when to converge slowly for strategy versus quickly for execution.
Founders often mistake their preferences for principles. A true principle is a non-negotiable rule you adhere to regardless of the trade-offs (e.g., 'always do things the right way'). A preference is a desired path you're willing to abandon when circumstances change (e.g., 'prefer not to build a sales team yet'). Clarifying this distinction leads to more consistent and high-integrity decisions.
When a founder advises a successor to 'make decisions that energize you,' it's a strategic directive, not a wellness tip. It serves as a guardrail against the 'death by a thousand cuts' that comes from compromising core beliefs just to make others comfortable, thereby preserving the vision.
When launching a new strategy, define the specific go/no-go decision criteria on paper from day one. This prevents "revisionist history" where success metrics are redefined later based on new fact patterns or biases. This practice forces discipline and creates clear accountability for future reviews.
If a decision has universal agreement, a leader isn't adding value because the group would have reached that conclusion anyway. True leadership is demonstrated when you make a difficult, unpopular choice that others would not, guiding the organization through necessary but painful steps.
The most paralyzing decisions for a leader aren't clear-cut choices but dilemmas where every path is painful. Ben Horowitz's decision to take his company public with minimal revenue was a bad idea, but the alternative—bankruptcy—was worse. The key skill is choosing the 'slightly better' path in the abyss, despite the guaranteed negative feedback.
A business decision aims to gamify and optimize a specific outcome. A principle decision is based on core values, made without knowing the outcome, to be remembered favorably regardless of the result. Sticking to principles may mean losing a short-term battle but ultimately wins the war by building trust.
Despite the emotional difficulty, the speaker was proud of making the strong decision to close the US office. The venture was compared to a casino game where they had to recognize when to stop putting chips on the table before it caused irreversible damage to the wider business.
Categorize decisions by reversibility. 'Hats' are easily reversible (move fast). 'Haircuts' are semi-permanent (live with them for a bit). 'Tattoos' are irreversible (think carefully). Most business decisions are hats or haircuts, but we treat them like tattoos, wasting time.