Ditch the standard 1-on-1 format. The most valuable use of this time, especially for creative roles, is a protected working session where a manager and report can whiteboard, brainstorm, and solve a specific problem together. This is far more impactful than asynchronous status updates.
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To move beyond status updates in one-on-one meetings, managers should open up about their own challenges. Asking a team member for their perspective on a decision the manager is making fosters trust, shows respect, and can uncover valuable insights you hadn't considered.
Believing traditional weekly 1-on-1s are inefficient and repetitive, V0's leader eliminated them. He favors discussing shared topics in group settings (like a Slack huddle) and reserves direct 1-on-1 time for specific situations like onboarding, rather than a fixed weekly cadence.
Many 1-on-1s become rote reviews of past work. A more effective approach is to dedicate significant time to discussing future plans. Use this opportunity to check in on upcoming goals and direction, ensuring you and your manager are aligned before work begins.
High-performing remote teams exhibit "bursty" collaboration—short, intense periods of interaction followed by deep work. To enable this, teams should cancel recurring meetings and instead establish shared "collaboration hours" where everyone is available for ad-hoc problem-solving and spontaneous discussion.
To maintain a flat, hands-on engineering culture without dedicated managers, Fal replaces traditional one-on-ones. They feel 1-on-1s can force negativity and instead use small group discussions with mixed tenure and roles. This format fosters more constructive, solution-oriented conversations rather than simple complaint sessions.
Status update meetings are a major productivity drain. Replace them with asynchronous videos (e.g., Loom). This method is more efficient, allowing people to consume updates on their own time. It also conveys more signal—tone, emphasis, and personality—than a written update, fostering better connection on distributed teams.
Most managers default to using 1-on-1s as pipeline reviews. This is a mistake. Dedicate separate meetings for deals (Deal Reviews) and protect the 1-on-1 as a "sacred space" for building connection, discussing personal and professional development, and strengthening the manager-rep relationship.
Productive teams need to schedule three distinct types of time. Beyond solo deep work and structured meetings, they must carve out 'fluid collaboration' blocks. These are for unstructured, creative work like brainstorming or pair programming, which are distinct from formal, agenda-led meetings and crucial for innovation.
Formal slide decks for sprint readouts invite a "judgment culture." Instead, use an "open house" format with work-in-progress on whiteboards. This frames the session as a collaborative build, inviting stakeholders to contribute rather than just critique.
Adopt the private equity board meeting model: circulate a detailed brief a week in advance. This forces attendees to consume updates asynchronously. The meeting itself can then be dedicated entirely to debating critical, forward-looking decisions instead of wasting time on status reports.
