The term "earn" can be fraught with psychological baggage related to self-worth. In a business context, view "earning your elevation" as having put in the required work, built something real, and lived the lessons you want to teach—completely separate from your inherent value as a person.
When a rep achieves a major success and thanks their coach, the most powerful response is to redirect the credit back to the rep. By stating, "You went and did the work," the coach reinforces the rep's ownership and self-efficacy, making the success about their actions, not the coach's magic.
You cannot consistently achieve an income level that you don't subconsciously believe you deserve. Your internal self-worth dictates your confidence and ability to make the necessary asks to reach higher earnings.
Many skilled professionals are overlooked for promotions or new roles not because their work is subpar, but because they fail to articulate a compelling narrative around their accomplishments. How you frame your impact in interviews and promotion documents is as crucial as the impact itself.
Instead of relying solely on internal self-talk, proactively ask trusted colleagues and supervisors to help you articulate your unique strengths and contributions. This external validation makes your value tangible and builds resilience against shame and comparison.
Tying your identity to professional achievements makes you vulnerable and risk-averse. By treating business as a "game" you are passionate about, but not as the core of your self-worth, you can navigate high-stakes challenges and failures with greater objectivity and emotional resilience.
Significant career advancements often stem from changes in self-perception and belief. Adopting a mindset where you believe you belong at the next level and can own your value changes how you act and how others perceive you, creating opportunities that skills alone cannot.
Actively pursuing a promotion often leads to frustration because it depends on factors outside your control. The path to growth and happiness is to focus entirely on maximizing your impact in your current role. Promotions and recognition will eventually follow as lagging indicators.
To assess an internal candidate's readiness for promotion, give them the responsibilities of the higher-level role first. If they can succeed with minimal coaching, they're ready. This approach treats promotion as an acknowledgment of proven performance rather than a speculative bet on future potential.
High-level titles are context-dependent and fade once you leave a company. This realization should shift your focus from chasing promotions to building products that create a lasting personal legacy, as that is an impact you truly own.
Instead of asking managers for a checklist to get promoted, focus on delivering significant impact. This approach is more effective and viewed more favorably by leadership. Genuine impact is what gets recognized and rewarded, while simply 'checking boxes' can backfire.