Don't use a generic opener. Lead with a specific trigger or context about the prospect, acknowledge it's a cold call, and then ask for 30 seconds of their time. This personalized approach makes every opener unique and more engaging, increasing the chances they'll listen.

To build relationships with potential mentors or sponsors, replace the extractive ask of "Will you mentor me?" with the value-added offer of "How can I help you?". This non-transactional approach demonstrates your worth, builds genuine rapport, and makes influential people want to invest in your career.

After a prospect identifies a high-level problem, drill down with another multiple-choice question detailing sub-problems. This signals you've solved similar problems before, elevating your status from salesperson to expert consultant, even if their specific issue is different.

Instead of cold calling, ask a target executive for a 10-minute interview for an article you're writing on an industry topic. This non-salesy approach grants access, positions you as an expert, and initiates a relationship on collaborative, not transactional, terms.

Podcast interviews are a powerful tool for building relationships with otherwise inaccessible decision-makers and mentors. Offering someone a platform to share their expertise is a more effective way to get their attention than a cold email, creating genuine connections and business opportunities.

In your opening script, explicitly state you're calling to see if it’s relevant to schedule a separate, future conversation. This immediately signals you respect their time and aren't trying to force a lengthy discussion now. It reframes the interaction as a joint assessment, making prospects more open to a two-way dialogue.

Instead of asking standard discovery questions, top performers pose strategic questions that require joint exploration. This shifts the dynamic from a sales pitch to a collaborative problem-solving session, creating a deeper partnership and revealing unforeseen opportunities that standard questions would miss.

Technical audiences are "human lie detectors." To build trust, don't lead with a sales pitch. Instead, ask insightful questions about their stack and pain points to prove you understand their world. This curiosity earns you the credibility needed to offer solutions and advice.

Instead of asking prospects to educate you with generic questions, conduct pre-call research and present a hypothesis on why you're meeting. This shows preparation and elevates the conversation. Even if you're wrong, the prospect will correct you, getting you to the right answer faster.