While delivering a virtual training, a speaker was distracted and shouted, "oh, look, a heron." While seemingly unprofessional, this human moment likely became the most memorable part of the presentation. It suggests that authenticity and relatable imperfections can create a stronger, more lasting connection with an audience than a flawless but sterile delivery.
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Attempting humor in a professional context is like sales; you fail more than you succeed. Embracing and sharing these imperfect attempts creates an authentic connection. It shows others that it is normal to fail on the path to success, which helps combat widespread imposter syndrome.
As AI automates content creation, the ultimate differentiator becomes authentic human connection. This means prioritizing "reading the room," sharing personal stories, and even being inefficient to foster genuine relationships. While AI optimizes for output, marketers who optimize for humanity will build more resilient brands.
Perfection is not relatable, but struggle is. Admitting your true emotional state, even a negative one like being tired or grumpy, to an audience (like a jury or a meeting) makes you more authentic. This vulnerability builds trust and rapport far more effectively than pretending everything is perfect.
Audiences connect with genuine, imperfect people, not polished professionals. Overcome the fear of looking awkward or making mistakes, as this authenticity is what viewers seek and will ultimately lead to a stronger connection and following.
In high-visibility roles, striving for perfect communication is counterproductive. Mistakes are inevitable. The key to credibility is not avoiding errors, but handling them with authenticity. This display of humanity makes a communicator more relatable and trustworthy than a polished but sterile delivery.
After establishing competence, admitting a minor flaw or making a small blunder (a "pratfall") can significantly increase appeal. This humanizes a person or product, making them seem more relatable and trustworthy. It works because it proves honesty and makes other claims more believable.
The CEO of Unbound Merino found that his most polished, creative ads often underperformed. Conversely, ads he felt were cheesy or made him uncomfortable—specifically, founder-led videos—were highly effective, showing that authenticity can trump production value.
As audiences push back against AI-generated and overly polished stock imagery, featuring real people in authentic situations will be critical for engagement. Showcasing your team, customers, or volunteers in natural settings—not on a green screen—builds trust and connection, making genuine humanity the key to cutting through the noise.
People connect with humanity, not perfection. True leadership requires understanding your own narrative, including flaws and traumas. Sharing this story isn't a weakness; it's the foundation of the connection and trust that modern teams crave, as it proves we are all human.
While AI can replicate content and strategy, it cannot replicate your unique voice, story, and perspective. The parts of yourself you're trained to hide—vulnerability, imperfection, emotion—are what make you magnetic and build lasting connections with an audience.
