To build relationships with potential mentors or sponsors, replace the extractive ask of "Will you mentor me?" with the value-added offer of "How can I help you?". This non-transactional approach demonstrates your worth, builds genuine rapport, and makes influential people want to invest in your career.

When conducting cold outreach to hiring managers or other employees, your primary call-to-action should not be a request for a meeting. Instead, make the ask a low-lift action: 'Please forward this resume to your recruiting partner.' This drastically increases the likelihood of reaching the right person.

A study of 300 million cold calls found that asking for permission to speak (e.g., "Got a minute for me to share why I'm calling?") is ten times more effective than standard pleasantries. This approach allows the prospect to consciously opt-in to the conversation.

The list of people who recently viewed your profile is a source of pre-qualified leads. Initiate contact with a personalized connection request based on a non-sales commonality (e.g., location). If they accept, follow up by offering value, not a sales pitch.

To avoid sounding pushy when asking critical questions about a deal's viability, frame them as necessary steps to ensure the customer's success post-implementation. This shifts the intent from closing a deal to building a successful partnership, encouraging open answers.

The generic offer "let me know if I can help" rarely gets a response. Asking "What does support look like right now?" is a more effective, direct question. It gently shifts the burden to the other person to define their needs, making them more likely to accept help and reducing resentment.

Standard questions like 'What's your biggest pain point?' often yield poor results. Reframing the question to what work a customer would offload to a new hire bypasses their pride or inability to articulate problems, revealing the tedious, high-value tasks ripe for automation.

Instead of a direct "just following up" message, tag your prospect in a relevant industry post on LinkedIn. This provides value, gives them visibility, and serves as a subtle reminder, positioning you as a helpful resource rather than a persistent seller.

Instead of pitching a customer, ask them, "Why did you decide to get on this call?" and "Why now?" This forces the prospect to articulate their own pain and why they believe you are the solution, reversing the sales dynamic and revealing core buying motivations.