After addressing a prospect's concern, don't assume you've solved it. Explicitly ask if your explanation was sufficient by asking, "Was that enough to satisfy your concern?" This simple check ensures the issue is truly resolved and prevents it from resurfacing later to kill your deal. Most reps answer and move on, which is a critical mistake.

Most salespeople fear silence and rush to fill it, appearing insecure. By intentionally embracing silence, you reframe it as a tool. It signals confidence, gives the buyer critical time to process information, and, like a pause in a performance, can make them lean in and pay closer attention.

Instead of rushing to fill a quiet moment with a pitch, deploy the phrase "I'm so curious about..." to prompt the buyer. This simple, disarming line invites them to elaborate on a point, turning a potentially awkward pause into an opportunity for a more natural, flowing conversation and deeper discovery.

Molly's approach to building trust centers on "affective presence"—focusing on the subconscious emotional footprint you leave. Instead of pitching, she works to disarm people and make them feel understood through fully present listening. This creates a sense of safety and certainty that is more persuasive than any sales script.

Fixating on closing a deal triggers negativity bias and creates a sense of desperation that prospects can detect. To counteract this, salespeople should shift their primary objective from 'How do I close this?' to 'How do I help this person?'. This simple reframe leads to better questions, stronger rapport, and more natural closes.

By proactively asking about potential deal-killers like budget or partner approval early in the sales process, you transform them from adversarial objections into collaborative obstacles. This disarms the buyer's defensiveness and makes them easier to solve together, preventing them from being used as excuses later.

To sell effectively, avoid leading with product features. Instead, ask diagnostic questions to uncover the buyer's specific problems and desired outcomes. Then, frame your solution using their own words, confirming that your product meets the exact needs they just articulated. This transforms a pitch into a collaborative solution.

Instead of pitching a customer, ask them, "Why did you decide to get on this call?" and "Why now?" This forces the prospect to articulate their own pain and why they believe you are the solution, reversing the sales dynamic and revealing core buying motivations.

When approaching someone, anticipate their mental checklist of objections and neutralize them upfront. Mentalist Oz Perlman did this by establishing a time limit ("I only have a minute"), building credibility ("the owner brought me in"), and removing the fear of a transaction, all within seconds.