Elevate yourself from a vendor to a linchpin by offering insights that reframe a client's challenges. When you provide a perspective or data they haven't considered, causing them to think differently because of you, you become an essential, irreplaceable resource they rely on for strategic guidance.
Most salespeople fear silence and rush to fill it, appearing insecure. By intentionally embracing silence, you reframe it as a tool. It signals confidence, gives the buyer critical time to process information, and, like a pause in a performance, can make them lean in and pay closer attention.
Instead of rushing to fill a quiet moment with a pitch, deploy the phrase "I'm so curious about..." to prompt the buyer. This simple, disarming line invites them to elaborate on a point, turning a potentially awkward pause into an opportunity for a more natural, flowing conversation and deeper discovery.
Instead of ignoring a buyer's hesitation, directly address it with phrases like "You seem hesitant." This improv-inspired technique disrupts conversational patterns, gets the buyer's attention, and opens the door to a more honest discussion about their underlying concerns, showing you are paying close attention.