When approaching someone, anticipate their mental checklist of objections and neutralize them upfront. Mentalist Oz Perlman did this by establishing a time limit ("I only have a minute"), building credibility ("the owner brought me in"), and removing the fear of a transaction, all within seconds.
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A silent dissenter won't respond to "What are your concerns?". Instead, "soft-float" several potential objections, like giving them a multiple-choice question (e.g., "Is it our integrations, our pricing, or something else?"). This lowers the barrier for them to engage and allows them to latch onto a specific point, revealing their true apprehension.
After addressing a prospect's concern, don't assume you've solved it. Explicitly ask if your explanation was sufficient by asking, "Was that enough to satisfy your concern?" This simple check ensures the issue is truly resolved and prevents it from resurfacing later to kill your deal. Most reps answer and move on, which is a critical mistake.
When a prospect gives a nasty or absurd objection (e.g., "I'm in a meeting"), don't be defensive. Counter with a ridiculously hilarious response that breaks the tension, calls out the absurdity, and reveals the human behind the phone.
Molly's approach to building trust centers on "affective presence"—focusing on the subconscious emotional footprint you leave. Instead of pitching, she works to disarm people and make them feel understood through fully present listening. This creates a sense of safety and certainty that is more persuasive than any sales script.
Tasked with gathering user feedback in a mall for a job interview, the speaker failed with a product-centric pitch. He succeeded by reframing the request as a personal, empathetic plea: "I'm on a job interview... Would you do that just so I can get this job?" This leveraged social goodwill over transactional value.
If a prospect says "no" to your permission-based opener but doesn't immediately hang up, use that brief moment to provide context. State a relevant trigger (like hiring) and social proof to pique their curiosity and potentially salvage the call.
Mentalist Oz Perlman manages failure risk by not telegraphing a trick's exact outcome. Like a director showing only the final cut, he can pivot if something goes wrong, and the audience never knows. This applies to presentations or demos where controlling the narrative is key.
Mentalist Oz Perlman landed more airtime on CNBC than any CEO by tailoring his performance to the network's world: stocks, bonds, and markets. By making his craft relevant to their audience's interests, he became indispensable. To capture attention, obsessively focus on the other person's context and needs.
Instead of personally challenging a guest, read a critical quote about them from another source. This reframes you as a neutral moderator giving them a chance to respond, rather than an attacker. The guest has likely already prepared an answer for known criticisms.
In the first minute of a cold call, resist the urge to pitch your product. Instead, lead with a 'reverse pitch' that focuses entirely on the prospect's potential problems. This approach is three times more effective than using solution-focused language, as it speaks to what the buyer actually cares about.
