The axiom 'people buy on emotion' is universally known but rarely applied in B2B sales meetings, which remain logic-focused. Sales leaders must actively train teams on specific techniques, like 'empathetic expertise,' to build genuine emotional connection with buyers.

Rushing through words causes listeners to disengage. By speaking with a deliberate cadence and strategic pauses, as orators like Churchill did, you force your audience to listen. This gives them time to process your message and connect with its emotional weight, making you more persuasive.

To accurately assess an unteachable trait like coachability, you can't just ask about it. You must create a situation that requires it. For coachability, run a brief role-play, provide direct feedback, and ask them to do it again, observing their verbal and non-verbal reactions to the coaching itself.

Don't view positive feedback as simply a way to make someone feel good. Its primary purpose is to make a person consciously aware of what they are doing well. This awareness increases the consistency and frequency of that desired behavior, making them a better performer.

To build a culture of continuous improvement, prioritize hiring for coachability. Individuals with backgrounds in competitive athletics or music are often ideal because they have been heavily coached their whole lives. They view direct feedback not as criticism, but as an essential tool for getting better.

Abstract feedback like "be more confident" is useless. Instead, sales managers should provide concrete instructions. Replace "you sound nervous" with "speak at a slower cadence," and change "have more confidence" to "speak louder" for clear, measurable directives.

Your physical energy is a key non-verbal signal of competence and reliability. Potential hires, investors, and partners subconsciously assess your energy to gauge if you can deliver on promises. Low energy can communicate untrustworthiness, causing you to lose high-caliber opportunities.

As AI handles analytical and data-driven tasks, the critical skills for salespeople shift. Emotional intelligence, listening, communication, and influencing decisions are no longer secondary 'soft' skills but have become the essential 'hard' skills that drive success and cannot be replicated by machines.

Highly charismatic people perfectly balance two traits: warmth (can I trust you?) and competence (can I rely on you?). An imbalance is the root of most interpersonal problems. Focusing only on competence appears cold, while focusing only on warmth appears friendly but not credible.