What made you a great PM will not make you a great director. The journey into leadership is a process of being humbled, recognizing your worldview is incomplete, and adapting your thinking. If you are not humble enough to change your mind, you will struggle to grow in your career.
The goal isn't to permanently erase a belief like "I can't make a mistake," as it is vital in high-stakes situations. Instead, adaptable leaders develop a portfolio of different mindsets. This allows them to consciously select the most effective belief for any given context, turning mental flexibility into a superpower.
Individual contributors are rewarded for having answers and sharing their expertise. To succeed as a leader, one must fundamentally change their approach. The job becomes about empowering others by asking insightful questions and actively listening, a diametrically opposed skillset that is difficult to adopt.
New leaders often fail because they continue to operate with an individual contributor mindset. Success shifts from personal problem-solving ("soloist") to orchestrating the success of others ("conductor"). This requires a fundamental change in self-perception and approach, not just learning new skills.
Moving from a technical expert to a leader is jarring because the skills that made you successful are no longer the priority. This shift from valuing your own output to enabling others' expertise often creates a profound, temporary sense of incompetence that few adults enjoy or are prepared for.
The transition from a hands-on contributor to a leader is one of the hardest professional shifts. It requires consciously moving away from execution by learning to trust and delegate. This is achieved by hiring talented people and then empowering them to operate, even if it means simply getting out of their way.
The pace of change in AI means even senior leaders must adopt a learner's mindset. Humility is teachability, and teachability is survivability. Successful leaders are willing to learn from junior colleagues, take basic courses, and admit they don't know everything, which is crucial when there is no established blueprint.
Significant career advancements often stem from changes in self-perception and belief. Adopting a mindset where you believe you belong at the next level and can own your value changes how you act and how others perceive you, creating opportunities that skills alone cannot.
While experience builds valuable pattern recognition, relying on old mental models in a rapidly changing environment can be a significant flaw. Wise leaders must balance their experience with the humility and curiosity to listen to younger team members who may have a more current and accurate understanding of the world.
When leaders get stuck, their instinct is to work harder or learn new tactics. However, lasting growth comes from examining the underlying beliefs that drive their actions. This internal 'operating system' must be updated, because the beliefs that led to initial success often become the very blockers that prevent advancement to the next level.
Newly promoted directors often fall into the trap of "hero syndrome," trying to solve every problem themselves as they did as individual contributors. True leadership requires letting go, redirecting stakeholders to your team, and finding satisfaction in their success, not your own visibility and praise.