Due to demographic shifts and a post-pandemic re-evaluation of work, employees now hold more power. This requires a fundamental leadership mindset shift: from managing people and processes to enabling their success. High turnover and disengagement are no longer employee problems but leadership failures. A leader's success now depends entirely on the success of their team, meaning 'you work for them'.

Employees who strictly adhere to their job description are likely to remain in the same role for years. Going above and beyond, such as cleaning a boss's station to simply be in their orbit, builds a reputation and relationships that lead to unexpected opportunities.

Success is often attributed not to a relentless personal grind, but to a superpower in attracting and retaining top talent. True scaling and outsized impact come from empowering a great team, embodying the idea that "greatness is in the agency of others."

Organizational success depends less on high-profile 'superstars' and more on 'Sherpas'—generous, energetic team players who handle the essential, often invisible, support work. When hiring, actively screen for generosity and positive energy, as these are the people who enable collective achievement.

To motivate and retain employees, especially in a challenging market, leaders must shift their perspective from 'they work for me' to 'I work for them.' This servant-leadership approach involves genuinely caring about your team's well-being and success, which fosters loyalty and improves performance.

Pandora's founder kept employees working for two years without pay by framing their work not as data entry, but as a magical, culture-shifting mission. Great leaders make everything bigger than it is, transforming jobs into purpose-driven crusades to sustain motivation.

Over a long career, great leaders accumulate a "snowball of talent"—A-players who follow them from one venture to the next. This becomes a powerful litmus test when hiring executives: if they have no network of past colleagues eager to join them, it's a major red flag about their leadership ability or the quality of their past teams.

Research shows employees with supportive supervisors engage more warmly with their infant children. This single leadership trait can positively affect a child's emotional regulation, social skills, and academic success, demonstrating that a manager's style has a profound, multi-generational impact far beyond the workplace.

A leader's success and happiness can be measured by the loyalty and longevity of their team. Bill Maher, despite not having children, has built a 'family' with staff who have stayed for decades. This demonstrates that providing opportunities for others to give love and feel loyalty is a greater source of happiness than receiving it.