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Meaningful pursuits, from relationships to mastering a skill like chess, are defined by the resistance and friction they present. Capitalism and technology are fundamentally geared toward removing friction (e.g., DoorDash, dating apps). In doing so, they risk creating a world of abundance that is devoid of the very challenges that create value and purpose.

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