Most salespeople fear silence and rush to fill it, appearing insecure. By intentionally embracing silence, you reframe it as a tool. It signals confidence, gives the buyer critical time to process information, and, like a pause in a performance, can make them lean in and pay closer attention.

Top salespeople aren't afraid to pause a prospect to ask for clarification. While many fear this appears rude or unintelligent, it actually demonstrates deep engagement and the confidence to control the conversation. This micro-skill prevents fatal misunderstandings and ensures alignment before moving forward.

Since communication is overwhelmingly non-verbal (only 6% words), any feeling of desperation from a salesperson is easily detected. This neediness repels buyers because it signals the focus is on the seller's quota, not the buyer's journey, instantly eroding trust and killing the deal.

Fixating on closing a deal triggers negativity bias and creates a sense of desperation that prospects can detect. To counteract this, salespeople should shift their primary objective from 'How do I close this?' to 'How do I help this person?'. This simple reframe leads to better questions, stronger rapport, and more natural closes.

The stress and anxiety felt after a sales interaction goes poorly is not a weakness. It signals a high degree of ownership and responsibility—core traits of successful salespeople. Those who feel this pain are more likely to learn, adapt, and ultimately be trusted by clients.

Instead of a feature-focused presentation, close deals by first articulating the customer's problem, then sharing a relatable story of solving it for a similar company, and only then presenting the proposal. This sequence builds trust and makes the solution self-evident.

When a client offers harsh, fundamental criticism during a pitch, the best response is not to defend the work but to acknowledge the miss. One CEO won a pitch by immediately conceding the point and offering to re-pitch, demonstrating humility and confidence.

The act of closing isn't just asking for the business; it's the composure you maintain *after* the ask is made. Like a bowler whose arm remains extended to ensure accuracy, a salesperson must stay balanced and handle final concerns without defensiveness. Rushing or emotionally flinching after the ask is made will cause the shot to drift.

Mentalist Oz Perlman manages failure risk by not telegraphing a trick's exact outcome. Like a director showing only the final cut, he can pivot if something goes wrong, and the audience never knows. This applies to presentations or demos where controlling the narrative is key.