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Inspired by philosopher Montaigne, who listed foreign customs to challenge his own norms, the hosts list modern "normal" behaviors (e.g., spending 22 hours indoors daily). This reframes our accepted lifestyle as just as arbitrary and strange as historical practices.

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16th-century philosopher Montaigne collected bizarre foreign customs (e.g., blackening teeth) not for novelty, but to remind himself how arbitrary his own cultural norms were. This practice helps leaders and investors question their own deeply ingrained, "obvious" truths and see reality from a new perspective.

Our 'Normal' Lifestyles, Like More Toilet Time Than Exercise, Are Culturally Arbitrary | RiffOn