Top performers naturally gravitate toward each other, sharing strategies and reinforcing a winning mindset. Underperformers often commiserate, creating a cycle of negativity. To improve, salespeople must consciously change their work social circle to absorb the habits and attitudes of high achievers.
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A sales manager's coaching style directly impacts their team's mindset. Constantly asking 'When will this close?' amplifies a seller's anxiety and negativity bias. In contrast, asking 'How are you helping this person?' reinforces a healthier, customer-centric process that leads to better long-term results.
The human desire to belong is often stronger than the desire for self-improvement. If your habits conflict with your social group, you'll likely abandon them. The most effective strategy is to join a culture where your goals are the norm, turning social pressure into a powerful tailwind for success.
Research cited in the book "PQ" reveals that the strongest predictor of a team's performance isn't leadership or strategy, but its collective "Positivity Quotient" (PQ)—the ratio of positive to total thoughts among its members. A high PQ is directly correlated with high productivity.
When presented with a new strategy, high performers are drawn to it because they are mentally disciplined to be comfortable with risk. In contrast, middle and low performers often resist change because it feels like a personal judgment on their past methods, triggering fear and shame.
Elite salespeople understand that closing deals requires a team. They actively cultivate advocates within their own company—in operations, support, and finance—by treating them well and recognizing their contributions. This internal support system is critical for smooth deal execution and ensures they can deliver on client promises.
Professor Jeffrey Pfeffer reframes productivity as 'ability times motivation times your environment.' This model posits that an individual's output is significantly multiplied by being surrounded by high-caliber talent. The quality of the people in an organization elevates everyone's work, a factor more critical than individual drive alone.
Insecure reps often avoid involving their own executives, fearing it makes them look weak. In contrast, top performers demonstrate confidence by strategically bringing in their leadership (even the CEO) to help close major deals. This is a sign of strategic maturity, not a weakness to be hidden.
The desire for social validation is innate and impossible to eliminate. Instead of fighting it, harness it. Deliberately change your environment to surround yourself with people who validate the positive behaviors you want to adopt, making sustainable change easier.
High performers don't network passively; they treat it as a core operational discipline with measurable goals. By setting a simple metric, such as making one valuable introduction for others per week, they proactively nurture their network with a giving-first mentality. This systematic approach builds immense social capital and karmic returns over time.
Salespeople who fixate on potential negative outcomes, like a golfer expecting to hit into a water hazard, subconsciously alter their actions to make that failure more likely. This negativity bias becomes a physical, self-fulfilling prophecy where the very act of preparing for failure ensures it.