Leading large-scale change requires motivating people you don't directly control, such as community partners. This "advanced leadership" skill also applies internally; even paid employees act like volunteers when asked to innovate. Sustained engagement depends on shared purpose, not hierarchical authority.

True power comes from 'say-do correspondence.' When you tell someone to do something and a good thing happens for them as a result, they are psychologically conditioned to comply with your future requests. This earned influence is far more potent than inherited status.

The core job of a Product Manager is not writing specs or talking to press; it's a leadership role. Success means getting a product to market that wins. This requires influencing engineering, marketing, and sales without any formal authority, making it the ultimate training ground for real leadership.

To effectively lead through influence, go beyond aligning on shared business objectives. Understand what personally motivates your cross-functional peers—their career aspirations or personal goals. The most powerful way to gain buy-in is to demonstrate how your initiative helps them achieve their individual ambitions.

Influence isn't about views; it's the 'high likelihood of compliance with requests.' Build it using the SPCL framework: Status (control scarce resources), Power (give advice that works), Credibility (show third-party proof), and Likeness (be relatable). Each component stacks to increase influence.

With only 12% of product teams finding profit-centric goals rewarding, leaders must reframe work. By connecting business outcomes to the emotional, human progress customers are trying to make, leaders can inspire teams far more effectively than with revenue targets alone.

Kaufman's '22-second leadership course' posits that everyone is searching for someone they can completely trust—a person who is principled, courageous, competent, and kind. Instead of trying to 'get people to like you,' effective leadership is simply becoming that person. This approach naturally attracts loyalty and builds strong teams without manipulation.

The most satisfying outcome of influence is not receiving credit, but witnessing a colleague who initially resisted your idea later advocate for it with conviction, believing it to be their own. This indicates you've planted a seed that grew into genuine alignment, not forced compliance.

Better products are a byproduct of a better team environment. A leader's primary job is not to work on the product, but to cultivate the people and the system they work in—improving their thinking, decision-making, and collaboration.