In collaborative fields, being a pleasant person to work with—a "good hang"—can advance your career further than exceptional talent alone. People actively avoid working with difficult personalities, regardless of their skill, which ultimately limits opportunities.

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Prioritizing a candidate's skills ('capacity') over their fit with the team ('chemistry') is a mistake. To scale culture successfully, focus on hiring people who will get along with their colleagues. The ability to collaborate and integrate is more critical for long-term success than a perfect resume.

Hard work is an overrated success factor, ranking fourth or fifth in importance. The most critical variables are project selection (what you work on) and people selection (who you work with). Working hard in a bad market or with the wrong team yields limited returns. Choose your playing field first.

Senior leaders now value candidates who ask excellent questions and are eager to solve problems over those who act like they know everything. This represents a significant shift from valuing 'knowers' to valuing 'learners' in the workplace.

Organizational success depends less on high-profile 'superstars' and more on 'Sherpas'—generous, energetic team players who handle the essential, often invisible, support work. When hiring, actively screen for generosity and positive energy, as these are the people who enable collective achievement.

Early in your career, prioritize building genuine friendships with your cohort. These peers will rise to become future industry leaders, creating a powerful, long-term network for support and opportunities that will far outlast your current role or relationship with management.

In a collaborative sales environment, a candidate's ability to be a good teammate is more valuable than their contact list. A difficult personality with a great rolodex can harm team productivity, whereas a collaborative person can be supported in building their own network.

In the services industry, high-quality work is merely table stakes. The primary differentiator is relationships, as clients ultimately choose to work with people they like and trust. Consequently, social skills and personal charm are not soft skills but crucial business assets for success.

Highly charismatic people perfectly balance two traits: warmth (can I trust you?) and competence (can I rely on you?). An imbalance is the root of most interpersonal problems. Focusing only on competence appears cold, while focusing only on warmth appears friendly but not credible.

The difference between successful and unsuccessful drug hunters isn't intelligence or education, but cultural attributes that exist 'in the margin.' These include radical transparency, honesty, humility, and being part of a supportive, truth-seeking team. These soft skills determine the outcome of high-stakes R&D.

In regulated industries where projects "take a village," the most crucial skill is not raw engineering talent, but communication. The ability to align a team, share ideas, and ensure mutual understanding is paramount, as a single dropped ball in communication can derail an entire product launch.

Being Likable Is More Important Than Raw Talent for Career Longevity | RiffOn