Move beyond surface-level discovery questions. Asking 'What do you value most in a partner?' forces prospects to articulate their core needs for a relationship (e.g., responsiveness, consultation). Their answer quickly reveals if there is a fundamental values alignment, a better predictor of success than technical fit.
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The desire to appear intelligent causes founders to avoid simple questions and instead anticipate needs. This leads to incorrect assumptions. Asking basic, even "stupid," questions like "Why did you take this call?" is the key to understanding the customer's real needs and ultimately closing the deal.
An Ideal Client Profile (ICP) is insufficient. Adopt a Perfectly Profitable Prospect Profile (P3P) to filter for alignment on core values, culture (e.g., agile vs. structured), and delivery fit (are they ready for your solution?). This proactively avoids friction and ensures engagement with high-value, low-headache clients.
Instead of asking standard discovery questions, top performers pose strategic questions that require joint exploration. This shifts the dynamic from a sales pitch to a collaborative problem-solving session, creating a deeper partnership and revealing unforeseen opportunities that standard questions would miss.
Technical audiences are "human lie detectors." To build trust, don't lead with a sales pitch. Instead, ask insightful questions about their stack and pain points to prove you understand their world. This curiosity earns you the credibility needed to offer solutions and advice.
Technical competence is the easiest part of a technical co-founder to evaluate. The real risks lie in misaligned goals (lifestyle vs. unicorn), personality clashes, and incompatible work styles. Prioritize assessing these crucial "human" factors first.
Adopt the mindset that the meeting's purpose is for you to determine if the prospect qualifies to be your customer, not for you to convince them to buy. This posture shifts control, positions you as the prize, and forces the prospect to prove they are a serious potential partner.
To avoid sounding pushy when asking critical questions about a deal's viability, frame them as necessary steps to ensure the customer's success post-implementation. This shifts the intent from closing a deal to building a successful partnership, encouraging open answers.
Curiosity is a long-term strategy, not a one-time tactic. By consistently asking curious questions across multiple interactions, you can identify a client's evolving business patterns and trajectory. This deep understanding allows you to anticipate needs and transform your role from a transactional vendor to a trusted strategic partner.
Instead of pitching a customer, ask them, "Why did you decide to get on this call?" and "Why now?" This forces the prospect to articulate their own pain and why they believe you are the solution, reversing the sales dynamic and revealing core buying motivations.
To gauge a partner manager candidate's empathy, ask for an example of a proud accomplishment. Candidates who frame success in terms of helping their partner achieve a goal, rather than just hitting their own targets, demonstrate the genuine care required for true partnership. This reveals their core motivations more effectively than direct questions.
