Attempting to control anxious thoughts with more thoughts ("top-down") is often ineffective. A more efficient strategy is to first regulate your body's physiology through techniques like controlled breathing ("bottom-up"), which then sends safety signals to the brain, making cognitive shifts easier.

The physiological states of anxiety and excitement are nearly identical. Relabeling the feeling by saying "I'm excited" shifts your mindset from threat-based to opportunity-based, improving performance in tasks like public speaking or negotiation.

Deep belly breathing, with a focus on a long exhalation, slows the autonomic nervous system and calms physical symptoms of anxiety like a shaky voice. It's a physiological hack to manage the fight-or-flight response.

The "simmering six" is a state of moderate, sustained stress that drains energy without producing peak results. Top performers, like BJJ champion Marcelo Garcia, avoid this by oscillating between deep rest (a "one") and full activation (a "ten"), rather than lingering in a mid-level state of anxiety.

Instead of trying to control or eliminate emotions like panic, view them as data. The goal isn't to be emotionless but to downgrade their intensity, create mental space, and consciously choose your behavior in response. This reframes negative feelings from obstacles into valuable signals.

To begin managing stress, use a simple 'stress ruler.' By mentally rating your stress level on a scale of 0 to 10 throughout the day, you create small moments of awareness. This simple act is the crucial first step, as a lack of awareness is what leads to burnout.

For high-stakes situations like interviews, your emotional state is more critical than your prepared strategy. Top performers use pre-game routines to get into a peak state. Develop your own pre-interview ritual—involving breath work, music, or visualization—to ensure you show up calm, clear, and confident.

Instead of viewing pre-performance physiological arousal as anxiety, reframe it as excitement or energy. Sam Harris explains that the physical sensations are nearly identical; consciously relabeling them connects the feeling to a positive desire to perform well, rather than a fear of failure.

To shift from anxiety to a peak performance state, use physical mechanisms. A specific technique involves scaled, intense breathing to oxygenate the brain and lower cortisol, followed by Qigong "cupping" to open the body's meridians. This provides a physiological lever for emotional regulation.