Founders can accurately gauge an investor's future helpfulness by their actions during the pre-investment courtship phase. If an investor is unwilling to provide value when they are most motivated to win the deal, they are unlikely to be a helpful partner later on.

To get meetings with busy leaders before her product was ready, founder Janice Omadeke explicitly stated, "I am too early for you to purchase this." This non-threatening approach lowered their guard, reframing the conversation from a sales pitch to a collaborative session focused on learning their problems.

To win the best pre-seed deals, investors should engage high-potential talent during their 'founder curious' phase, long before a formal fundraise. The real competition is guiding them toward conviction on their own timeline, not battling other VCs for a term sheet later.

Raise capital when you can clearly see upcoming growth and need resources to service it. Tying your timeline to operational milestones, like onboarding new customers, creates genuine urgency and momentum. This drives investor FOMO and helps close deals more effectively than an arbitrary deadline.

Top founders fundraise like a confident person on a first date. They project that their company will succeed with or without a specific investor's money. This shifts the dynamic from seeking capital to offering a strategic partnership, forcing VCs to justify why they should be on the cap table.

Desperation repels investors. Negreanu advises against front-loading a pitch with an ask. Instead, talk passionately about your project, then explicitly state you're not actively seeking money but are "open to listen." This creates scarcity and shifts the power dynamic, making them want in.

Engaging with founders a month before Demo Day, even without a formal pitch, provides a vital baseline. Witnessing their spectacular progress over that month creates a powerful second data point on execution velocity, making the investment decision far easier and more informed.

Raising venture capital is often a network-driven game. If you don't already have a network of VCs or a clear path through an accelerator, your focus should not be on fundraising. Instead, dedicate your effort to building a product people want and gaining traction. VCs will find you once you have something compelling to show.

The most effective fundraising strategy isn't a rigid, time-boxed "process." Instead, elite founders build genuine relationships with target VCs over months. When it's time to raise, the groundwork is laid, turning the fundraise into a quick, casual commitment rather than a competitive, game-driven event.