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David Ko distinguishes 'eustress' (good stress), which boosts resilience, from 'distress' (bad stress), which causes burnout. A common leadership failure is to only add tasks without subtracting any, which systematically converts manageable pressure into chronic, damaging stress.

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Before labeling a team as not resilient, leaders should first examine their own expectations. Often, what appears as a lack of resilience is a natural reaction to systemic issues like overwork, underpayment, and inadequate support, making it a leadership problem, not an employee one.

Intense work and long hours do not necessarily cause burnout. The primary drivers are churn, politics, and a lack of tangible progress. When teams feel their work is wasted due to erratic decisions or internal friction, morale plummets. Clear priorities and visible progress are the best antidotes to burnout.