To combat the feeling of time accelerating with age, actively practice feeling. By consciously allowing yourself to weep at something moving or laugh out loud at something funny, you register moments more deeply. This slows down your perception of life and prevents you from merely ripping through it.

Labeling emotions like fear as 'bad' leads to suppression. This act disconnects you from your body and forces your attention into your mind, which creates debilitating self-talk. True confidence is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to feel everything without judgment or suppression.

Patti Davis, daughter of Ronald Reagan, suggests a tool for managing intense emotions like grief or anger: set a timer for 30 minutes. Allow yourself to fully experience the feeling during that time. When the alarm sounds, you must move on with your day. This method allows for emotional processing without letting it consume you.

Instead of treating fear as a psychological flaw, view it as a neutral, physical vibration in the body. This atomic perspective, inspired by physics, allows you to step out of self-judgment and use the energy creatively. You stop managing the 'idea' of anxiety and start experiencing the raw sensation.

Stress doesn't come from events, but from our mental resistance to them. "Arguing with what is" is the sole cause of suffering. Accepting reality as it is—without necessarily condoning it—is the path to peace.

Labels like 'imposter syndrome' or 'feeling like a failure' are purely mental stories, not physical realities. Your body doesn't know what 'failure' is; it only experiences sensations like a churning stomach or tightness in the chest. By focusing on the raw physical feeling, you disconnect from the mind's debilitating narrative.

The brain's emotional center is five times stronger than its rational part. When triggered by stress, it shuts down executive function. A deliberate 90-second pause is a powerful antidote that allows the physiological wave of emotion to pass, enabling clearer, more considered decision-making.

Instead of bottling up or immediately reacting to anger (e.g., before sending a terse email), channel the emotion physically. A brief, intense activity like lifting a dumbbell for 60 seconds helps process the frustration constructively, preventing it from escalating into a destructive response.

Instead of trying to eliminate suffering in ourselves or others, adopt a "ministry of presence." This means showing up with a loving heart to be with painful emotions as they are, creating a spacious and compassionate inner environment. This transforms our relationship with pain, even if the pain itself doesn't disappear.