Showing up as your "full self" in every situation is ineffective. A better approach is "strategic authenticity," where you adjust your communication style to suit the context (e.g., a board meeting vs. a team lunch) without compromising your fundamental values.

Tailor your message by understanding what motivates your audience. Technical teams are driven to solve problems, while sales and marketing teams are excited by new opportunities. The core idea can be identical, but the framing determines its reception and gets you more engagement.

The most crucial communication advice is to 'connect, then lead.' Before guiding an audience to a new understanding or action, you must first establish a connection by tapping into what they care about and making your message relatable. Connection is a prerequisite for leadership and influence, not an optional extra.

Effective leadership isn't about one fixed style. It’s about accurately reading a situation and adapting your approach—whether to be directive, empathetic, or demanding. Great leaders know that leading senior executives requires a different approach than managing new graduates.

A compelling narrative isn't just about what you do (external). It requires a personal "why" (emotional) and a steel-manned refutation of the dominant worldview (philosophical). This internal work galvanizes teams and resonates with customers.

Leaders often feel the need to create new metaphors for every presentation. However, audiences require hearing the same core message multiple times to absorb it. The key is to embrace the mantra "repetition never spoils the prayer" and focus on consistently delivering a few key themes.

True brand consistency isn't identical, cookie-cutter messaging. A human brand adapts its core narrative to the specific needs of different roles in the buying unit. Procurement requires facts and figures, while end-users or salespeople need to understand "what's in it for me."

Contrary to the popular belief that it's always detrimental, for product managers, context switching is a core strength. Fluidly moving between customer, engineering, and marketing conversations is essential for integrating diverse perspectives to bring a product to life.

There are no universal leadership traits; successful leaders can be introverts, extroverts, planners, or chaotic. What they share is the ability to make others feel that following them will lead to a better tomorrow. This emotional response is what creates followers, not a specific checklist of skills.