Women's preference for less lean, slightly "softer" male physiques may be an evolutionary adaptation. This physique signals "formidability"—the ability to win a fight and protect—which is valued over the aesthetic of being extremely "shredded."
Men often admire extremely lean physiques in other men because they represent a high-status signal of discipline and difficulty. This creates a perception gap, as women may view the same physique as less formidable or as a sign of an unhealthy obsession with looks.
Contrary to the "get it out of your system" theory, a higher number of past sexual partners is a strong predictor of future relationship instability. For both men and women, it correlates with higher rates of divorce, cheating, and lower satisfaction in long-term relationships.
Contrary to the belief that "size doesn't matter," a study found that 27% of women reported having broken up with a man, at least in part, because of his penis size. The vast majority of these cases were due to the man being too small.
The "rich gay uncle" hypothesis suggests homosexuality persists by shifting reproductive effort. Instead of having their own children, gay men may invest heavily in their siblings' offspring, promoting the survival of shared genes through kin selection. This is supported in some, but not all, cultures.
Highly technical, male-dominated pursuits like heavy metal guitar function as an intrasexual status competition. They are not primarily for attracting women directly. Rather, men compete to establish a hierarchy among themselves, and women are then attracted to the high-status winners.
Research indicates women's ideal male body fat percentage is around 13-15%, which is lean but not "shredded." This contrasts with the bodybuilding ideal of sub-10% body fat, suggesting men's aesthetic goals are misaligned with female preferences.
Data shows high-status men practice assortative mating, pairing with women of similar educational and economic standing. The "rich man marries the young, beautiful waitress" trope is a myth; successful men value partners they can relate to intellectually and who understand their world.
Women's rising socioeconomic status has led to "hyperandry," where men marry "up" economically. This is now the norm for the bottom 40% of male earners and the top 20% of female earners, creating a new social landscape with unresolved cultural tensions and mismatched preferences.
The "Dad Bod" appeals to women because it signals a man is prioritizing paternal investment (being a good father) over mating effort (attracting new partners). A hyper-focus on physique can be a turn-off, suggesting a self-centered, mating-oriented personality.
Research using 3D models shows women prefer a penis size (6.3 inches) that falls in the 95th percentile of men. This ideal is larger than what most women have ever encountered, creating a mismatch between preference and reality.
Studies on ideal mate preferences show that both sexes find partners with zero sexual history (virgins) less desirable than those with a few (1-3) past partners. This suggests virginity, past a certain age, can signal social maladjustment or a lack of desirable qualities.