The internet's evolution from social networking (connecting with friends) to social media (broadcasting to followers) destroyed a valuable product category. This shift replaced genuine intimacy with performance, contributing to a global rise in loneliness and isolation as people stare at screens instead of connecting.

Despite gains in affluence and safety, modern life has led to increased depression and loneliness. Humans thrive on hardship and the feeling of being essential to their "tribe." The isolation of modern society strips away this sense of necessity, a core human need for fulfillment.

An app that checks if users living alone are still alive has gone viral in China. Its popularity signals a profound societal problem: a loneliness epidemic driven by millions of one-person households, declining marriage rates, and the breakdown of traditional family support systems.

High real estate costs prevent young men from accessing urban centers for opportunities and social connection. They substitute the rich, real-world interactions of city life with a cheaper, algorithm-driven digital existence on their smartphones, a dynamic from which tech companies profit.

People feel lonely because they fill their finite capacity for social connection (Dunbar's number) with one-sided parasocial relationships from social media. These connections occupy mental "slots" for real friends, leading to a feeling of social emptiness in the real world.

Beyond economic disruption, AI's most immediate danger is social. By providing synthetic relationships and on-demand companionship, AI companies have an economic incentive to evolve an “asocial species of young male.” This could lead to a generation sequestered from society, unwilling to engage in the effort of real-world relationships.

Society rewards hyper-independence, but it's often a coping mechanism to avoid relational vulnerability. This external validation creates a vicious cycle, leading to external success but profound internal disconnection and loneliness, as the behavior is both protective and culturally applauded.

The sharp rise in teens feeling their lives are useless correlates directly with the smartphone era. Technology pulls them from productive activities into passive consumption, preventing the development of skills and a sense of purpose derived from contribution.

We spend more time alone due to structural factors and technology that enable avoiding interaction. This 'interiority' is a self-reinforcing cycle: as we interact less, our social skills can atrophy and social inertia sets in, making it progressively more difficult and energy-intensive to re-engage with others.