The internet's evolution from social networking (connecting with friends) to social media (broadcasting to followers) destroyed a valuable product category. This shift replaced genuine intimacy with performance, contributing to a global rise in loneliness and isolation as people stare at screens instead of connecting.
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In the past, information was scarce, making ventures like "Little Blue Books" massive successes. Today, information is abundant, but belonging is scarce. This shift creates huge business opportunities. Companies like WeRoad, which facilitates group travel for solo professionals, are tapping into this by "curing loneliness" and building a $100M+ business.
Young people face a dual crisis: economic hardship and a psychological barrage from social media's curated success. This creates a "shame economy," where constant notifications of others' fake wealth intensify feelings of failure, loneliness, and anxiety more than any other societal factor.
Beyond economic disruption, AI's most immediate danger is social. By providing synthetic relationships and on-demand companionship, AI companies have an economic incentive to evolve an “asocial species of young male.” This could lead to a generation sequestered from society, unwilling to engage in the effort of real-world relationships.
Face-to-face contact provides a rich stream of non-verbal cues (tone, expression, body language) that our brains use to build empathy. Digital platforms strip these away, impairing our ability to connect, understand others' emotions, and potentially fostering undue hostility and aggression online.
As AI makes digital content increasingly artificial and indistinguishable from reality, the value of authentic, in-person human connection will skyrocket. The most powerful counter-position to the AI trend isn't less technology, but rather using technology to facilitate more tangible, "real" world interactions.
The networking movement's rapid global adoption was driven by a simple, powerful rule: focus on the person, not the profession. By banning the typical transactional icebreaker, it created a space for genuine human connection, fulfilling a deep hunger for community in an increasingly online world.
As AI makes information universally accessible, traditional status markers like 'knowledge' will devalue. The new status will be derived from the ability to convene and lead large, in-person communities. Influence will be measured by one's capacity to facilitate real-world human connection and experiences, fighting digital isolation.
We spend more time alone due to structural factors and technology that enable avoiding interaction. This 'interiority' is a self-reinforcing cycle: as we interact less, our social skills can atrophy and social inertia sets in, making it progressively more difficult and energy-intensive to re-engage with others.
Social media's business model created a race for user attention. AI companions and therapists are creating a more dangerous "race for attachment." This incentivizes platforms to deepen intimacy and dependency, encouraging users to isolate themselves from real human relationships, with potentially tragic consequences.
The core business model of dominant tech and AI companies is not just about engagement; it's about monetizing division and isolation. Trillions in shareholder value are now directly tied to separating young people from each other and their families, creating an "asocial, asexual youth," which is an existential threat.