We often treat our values as immutable truths. However, many are learned from early mentors or career environments. It's crucial to periodically question if these are truly your values or adopted principles that no longer serve your current leadership role or life stage.
When your business no longer feels aligned, trust your instincts to make a change. The required pivot may be disruptive and risky, especially if the current model is commercially successful, but your internal wisdom is the most reliable guide for long-term fulfillment and integrity.
A leader won't address their limiting beliefs until they feel a palpable tension. This dissonance arises when their actions conflict with desired results (like a promotion) or their own values. This feeling of 'something's not working' is the essential starting point for genuine change.
Habits must evolve with life's seasons (e.g., career changes, having children). A habit that served you well in one phase may hold you back in the next. Be willing to give up old, successful routines that no longer align with your current priorities and identity.
Founders often mistake their preferences for principles. A true principle is a non-negotiable rule you adhere to regardless of the trade-offs (e.g., 'always do things the right way'). A preference is a desired path you're willing to abandon when circumstances change (e.g., 'prefer not to build a sales team yet'). Clarifying this distinction leads to more consistent and high-integrity decisions.
Many self-limiting beliefs, like the fear of making mistakes, are tied to past definitions of success. To overcome these beliefs, you must first update what success looks like for you now. Your old driving principles may no longer serve your new goals.
Your core values aren't just abstract principles you admire; they are revealed by the concrete things you willingly give up time, ego, or comfort for. Observing your sacrifices provides a clearer, more honest assessment of what truly drives you.
Successful, long-standing organizations risk conflating their identity (how they operate, e.g., "active global investor") with their purpose (the ultimate mission, e.g., "maximize return"). Leaders must constantly challenge whether their established identity still serves the core purpose, avoiding decisions that merely preserve the status quo.
Traits like extreme responsiveness, which earn praise early in a career, can lead to burnout and poor prioritization at senior levels. Leaders must recognize when a once-beneficial belief no longer serves their new, scaled responsibilities and becomes a limiting factor.
The paradox of values-based work is that while it often involves difficult conversations or actions, it ultimately provides energy and fulfillment. Conversely, taking the easy way out (e.g., avoiding conflict) feels simpler in the moment but leaves you feeling hollowed out and depleted.
'Hidden blockers' like micromanagement or a need to always be right rarely stem from negative intent. They are often deep-seated, counterproductive strategies to fulfill fundamental human needs for value, safety, or belonging. Identifying the underlying need is the first step toward finding a healthier way to meet it.